tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-178699992051690921.post8438467358904455604..comments2023-06-11T08:00:15.334-04:00Comments on I Shoulda Been a Stripper: It's my pity party and I'll cry if I want toUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-178699992051690921.post-71114655653773735752012-01-13T15:38:23.586-05:002012-01-13T15:38:23.586-05:00You don't know me, and I only know you through...You don't know me, and I only know you through this blog...but let me say it's his loss. Definitely his loss, my god.<br /><br />Keep your nerve up hotness, You'll find a guy to appreciate you one of these days.Paulnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-178699992051690921.post-67157474278583609272012-01-06T21:08:13.324-05:002012-01-06T21:08:13.324-05:00@T,
Don't be silly. I haven't even kept up...@T,<br />Don't be silly. I haven't even kept up with my blog. :-)<br /><br />I'm really okay with it now. If anything,it's made me more motivated to keep working out like I was anyway. <br /><br />Thanks. xoxoBobby Allanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17362990178566295070noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-178699992051690921.post-15110778952510391512012-01-06T13:39:35.438-05:002012-01-06T13:39:35.438-05:00Chrissy, I am so sorry I havent kept on top of yo...Chrissy, I am so sorry I havent kept on top of your blog. I wish I could wrap my arms around you with the biggest hug, and tell you it's going to be all right. XXOO TAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-178699992051690921.post-55025114474435808572012-01-02T11:27:27.041-05:002012-01-02T11:27:27.041-05:00@Dieter,
Oh, honey, your comments made me laugh ou...@Dieter,<br />Oh, honey, your comments made me laugh out loud! Thank you! I DO appreciate the compliment from you. You all have such good taste. LOL!!<br /><br />Funny you mention Mr. Darcy. I just watched that a few days ago.<br /><br />xoxoBobby Allanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17362990178566295070noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-178699992051690921.post-80148016160650943932012-01-02T11:24:18.665-05:002012-01-02T11:24:18.665-05:00@Indigo Wrath,
Thank you, sweetheart.
@Simply Su...@Indigo Wrath,<br />Thank you, sweetheart. <br /><br />@Simply Suthern,<br />Thanks. I can sure pick em!<br /><br />@Ron,<br />You're such a good friend, thank you. I'm okay with it now. The stinging has gone away. :-)<br /><br />@Dazee Dreamer,<br />Good for you! And normally, I wouldn't let it affect me this bad but it's been a rough year and I was already feeling down. <br /><br />@Teresa,<br />Thank you so much. Does Chris have a brother??<br /><br />@middle child,<br />You're so right. Thank you. :-)<br /><br />@jaymo,<br />Thanks for the very kind words. I was already doing it for myself. I would never do it for anyone else. <br /><br />@Brahm,<br />Thank you! YES. You figure that stuff out in the first 5 minutes. <br /><br />@S,<br />Love this. Thank you! And yes, I'm pretty sure it will be okay eventually. :-)<br /><br />@Laoch of Chicago,<br />Thanks! Sheesh, me too.<br /><br />@Anonymous,<br />Thank you. And you're absolutely right. Thank God, I found this out about him now. Next it would be the color of my nail polish!Bobby Allanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17362990178566295070noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-178699992051690921.post-67204022007203730972012-01-02T03:42:36.178-05:002012-01-02T03:42:36.178-05:00Oh, shit, ouch! Difficult to say anything halfway ...Oh, shit, ouch! Difficult to say anything halfway intelligent after that, I guess. On one hand, I don't want to blame the guy because I don't know him and because I guess you're right: we're all just as shallow as he told you he was. And of course, he wasn't your Mr. Darcy (I mean, imagine our gorgeous hot-as-hell considerate Darcy-lad treat a woman like that!). On the other, he deserves a High Five. Right in his face, of course.<br />Anyway, could it be a relief if I told you I think you ARE a helluva gorgeous chick (make it a helluva wonderful lady if the "gorgeous chick" sounds too vulgar, okay?)? Or would you go all "that's just my luck, now I'm officially a FAG HAG!"?<br />I kiss 'n' hug ya and wish you all the bestest for 2012. Btw, don't forget thet North Koreans weren't crying for the loss of their ancient dictator but because they knew what a nutty shitball their new one was.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04430687233562149810noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-178699992051690921.post-89393818472710254142011-12-31T12:31:16.283-05:002011-12-31T12:31:16.283-05:00well, i happen to know how beautiful you are so th...well, i happen to know how beautiful you are so that doesnt fly. sometimes we are the last ones to see it cuz of our own egos and this crazy world. move on and be thankful that you didnt waste anymore time.<br />try yoga, it helped me realize i am not my probs and i exist outside of all that crap...to let go...that leads to improvements in other areas. <br />be kind to yourself this year and the rest will follow. you arent old and douche bags like him cant eat you or take away your birthday...so focus that energy on something constructive. like more posts lolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-178699992051690921.post-77415865455287726742011-12-30T00:31:12.027-05:002011-12-30T00:31:12.027-05:00Good wishes to you. I hope this next year will br...Good wishes to you. I hope this next year will bring you softer landings.Sultanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06506141014376919585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-178699992051690921.post-76798957730713005832011-12-30T00:29:57.983-05:002011-12-30T00:29:57.983-05:00Everyone lives with himself every moment of one...Everyone lives with himself every moment of one's life. One does not need permission to feel for one's self. <br /><br />Socrates taught his students to "Know thyself". For some,this is a life long project. Although, certain realisations are difficult. A little drink, a little crying, helps to numb and purge.<br /><br />Acceptance, rarely comes in an instance, is also a process. It is an exercise in greater humanity. In other words...life is one damn thing after another. <br /><br />People we encounter are either blessings, or hindrances. This one detoured you, that path is behind you. Go forward.<br /><br />And as you said yourself: "Don't worry, everything's going to be fine. Okay, probably not today...but eventually. I'm pretty sure."Snoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-178699992051690921.post-16212431377268639262011-12-29T13:37:58.052-05:002011-12-29T13:37:58.052-05:00Wow, that guy is a jerk. While we all have physica...Wow, that guy is a jerk. While we all have physical stuff that works for us and doesn't, that is what you sift thru on the first meeting, and then it should be a non-issue.<br /><br />I am superficial in ways too. Macy's dude is a jerk. There is a HUGE difference! <br /><br />Sending warm thoughts your way... on to a better 2012!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11883394577835241921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-178699992051690921.post-58915380743462027722011-12-29T10:20:40.504-05:002011-12-29T10:20:40.504-05:00You have been through a lot, and you're very b...You have been through a lot, and you're very brave to talk about it all. Yeah, what the guy said hurt your feelings...I think it would hurt anyone's feelings, you're only human. The thing is, his opinion is only that...his opinion. There isn't a single person on earth who couldn't find someone to hate on them for their outward appearance, and you found yours. Fuck him, or even better just forget him. Listen to your friends, but mostly listen to your hot inner self. It's still you. You're beautiful, smart, and accomplished. If it's better for your health, and for how you feel about yourself, by all means go on and work on losing the weight you don't want. But do it for you, not for some guy on a dating site. Hugsjaymohttp://www.jaymophotos.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-178699992051690921.post-29296470936847380072011-12-29T00:35:09.134-05:002011-12-29T00:35:09.134-05:00I'm still young and hot and none of it shows o...I'm still young and hot and none of it shows on the outside. Until someone looks. I have 7 grandkids and we play. Hunter has lots of men friends and we flirt. Don't let your self-worth come from others. You are intelligent and loving. Embrace YOU.middle childhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09805863175279915034noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-178699992051690921.post-8807392843223452942011-12-29T00:00:18.343-05:002011-12-29T00:00:18.343-05:00But, you look great! This is unbelievable! And goo...But, you look great! This is unbelievable! And good riddance to Macy's guy of course. If he can't recognize quality, he doesn't deserve it. It's one thing to just not be attracted to someone, that happens (even to "hot" people) but he was obviously attracted to you and then couldn't get over his own shallowness. That's his problem, not yours. I hit middle-aged headlong when I was diagnosed with breast cancer and had to go through chemo. I was bald, without eyebrows or eyelashes, bloated, sick, and covered in hives for several months and Chris never flinched. He stayed right by my side (and he's 12 years younger and can only see middle age somewhere off in the distance). That's love and that's what you deserve and will find. It has nothing to do with youth or looks or weight or any of those things that change on a daily basis. But, in the meantime, you know, walking the beagles is always helpful. Seamus tells me that all the time.Teresahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12031358252817150321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-178699992051690921.post-15981851949714983492011-12-28T21:31:38.268-05:002011-12-28T21:31:38.268-05:00What a jerk. I've never cared for people that...What a jerk. I've never cared for people that judge a person by their looks. I'm overweight, and I tell ya, if anyone doesn't want to like me, or hang with me because of it, then too bad for them. They are the loser.Dazee Dreamerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08323163539682131873noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-178699992051690921.post-39297610931521845582011-12-28T21:16:22.236-05:002011-12-28T21:16:22.236-05:00"....only I’ll reject someone immediately. I ..."....only I’ll reject someone immediately. I don’t string ‘em along and then change my mind."<br /><br />I'm the same way, girl! I can usually tell immediately if something is not 'clicking' for me with someone, so if I know they feel more for me than I do for them, I will tell them how I feel right off the bat - as not to lead them on to think something else.<br /><br />You've been through SO MUCH these past two years, and I so admire and respect the way you've handled it all. Therefore, you don't deserve this additional CRAP from Macy's guy.<br /><br />Can I give you some advice?<br /><br />Take a moment to stand back and look at yourself in a mirror. And I mean REALLY look. And then begin to see yourself as we do.<br /><br />A physically STUNNING lady, with a heart and soul to match!<br /><br />((((( Chrissy )))))<br /><br />You are so LOVED, my friend!<br /><br />X<br /><br />P.S. And please feel free to call me if you want someone to talk to. I'm hear for you.Ronhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15977027331657615697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-178699992051690921.post-20436077490508778942011-12-28T20:11:03.513-05:002011-12-28T20:11:03.513-05:00I dont really know what to say. Who does that crap...I dont really know what to say. Who does that crap? You are a gorgeous woman. Dont let anyone make you question that. <br /><br />I'm with IW, We love ya hun.Simply Suthernhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13057516546779066925noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-178699992051690921.post-15665656222812069762011-12-28T19:10:39.478-05:002011-12-28T19:10:39.478-05:00"I was crying over the loss of my youth, my h..."I was crying over the loss of my youth, my hotness and everything that has to do with how I look." Well, I appreciate that's how you feel about it, but it could not be further from the truth. Don't let a douche drag you down. We love you, O Hot One!Indigo Rothhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03957870121933442627noreply@blogger.com